What to wear to a wedding

Whether you are the bride-to-be, the maid of honor or just honored to be a guest, we’ll have you sashaying down the aisle in style. Country club charm, sleek city chic, beachfront bliss–for every locale and every taste, here are gorgeous gowns, glorious gems and girlie goodies that will help you fit in at every fabulous wedding fete. We also feature fantastic gifts–to get and give–that fit the bill perfectly.

Country Club

COUNTRY CLUB COQUETTE

Delight in the charms of a country club wedding–and be something of a charmer yourself–with these fancy and fabulous pieces.

A-line gown with all-over beaded, corded lace from the David’s Bridal Collection. Available at David’s Bridal locations nationwide. Call 888-480-BRIDE or visit www.davidsbridal.com.

Takohl rose pendant from the Contemporary Botanical Collection. Available in sterling silver or white gold. Call 800-480-6999 or visit www.takohl.com.

Cyma watch with full-cut diamonds and stainless steel bracelet. Call 800-359-5163.

ABA Diamond bracelet set with 40 Victorian-cut diamonds. Visit www.victoriandiamond.com.

Princess- and brilliant-cut platinum diamond engagement rings and wedding band by Judith Conway. Visit www.judithconway.com.

MIX IT UP

Gold, diamonds and gems peacefully (and beautifully) coexist among flirty and floral pieces.

JS International strapless party dress with velvet bustier, mesh skirt and flower pin. Available at Lord & Taylor locations nationwide.

Judith Conway necklace with diamonds encircling the 1-karat round, brilliant-cut center, held by a platinum woven mesh chain. Visit www.judithconway.com.

Pave diamond wide ring wedding band and three-stone diamond engagement rings from Martin Flyer. Visit www.martinflyer.com.

Love luxury? Then The Ritz-Carlton Palm Beach is your go-to getaway. Posh and pampering, it’s the ideal destination for an opulent honeymoon.

TRULY GIFTED

We firmly believe it is better to give. But with gifts like these, we understand if you’d rather receive.

Coaster set and brown leather storage box, which holds anything from red wine to a cashmere blanket, from the Target Modern Luxe Collection. Visit www.Target.com or a Target store near you.

Diamond pendant in signature tension settings, exclusive to Steven Kretchmer. Call 888-746-4753.

Oro Diamante Quadra Aeternus stainless steel chronograph with stingray strap. Visit www.orodiamante.com.

Three-stone Victoriancut diamond ring from ABA Diamond. Visit www.victoriandiamond.com.

CITY

CITY SOPHISTICATE

Nothing rivals the posh polish of a city-centered wedding. Dazzling skyline views, the finest foods, the freshest flowers … it’s all there for the big-city bride’s taking.

Oleg Cassini mikado A-Line gown with beaded empire-waist bodice and retro-funnel neckline. Available at David’s Bridal locations nationwide. Call 888-480-BRIDE or visit www.davidsbridal.com.

Oro Diamante Circa Aeternus stainless steel watch. Visit www.orodiamante.com.

Diamond tension ring by Steven Kretchmer. Call 888-746-4753.

Platinum pave diamond eternity band by Martin Flyer. Visit www.martinflyer.com.

DRIPPING WITH DRAMA

Make the city scene with glitzy goods guaranteed to turn the heads of even the most jaded urbanites.

Black tube dress in matte and shiny sequins with velvet spaghetti straps and banding, by JS International. Available at Lord & Taylor locations nationwide.

Takohl’s raindrop earrings and beaded necklace with customcut quartz. Available in sterling silver or white gold. Call 800-480-6999 or visit www.takohl.com.

Oro Diamante contemporary men’s 14-karat white-gold wedding bands. Available in 18-karat white-gold, yellow-gold and platinum. Also available for women. Visit www.orodiamante.com.

PRESENT PERFECT

Feather your nuptial nest with some gifts to suit the impeccable tastes of seasoned city dwellers.

Square quilted pillow, pleated pillow and large glass vase from the Target Modern Luxe Collection. Visit www.Target.com or a Target store near you.

Cyma watch, featuring full-cut diamonds set in stainless steel or 18-karat white gold. Call 800-359-5163.

Coast Diamond chandelier earrings from the Gem Colour Collection. Call 800-523-5937 or visit www.coastdiamond.com.

Beach

SWEPT AWAY

Gentle breezes, the brilliant backdrop of pristine white sand and azure skies–if nature’s your calling, then a beach-based wedding is a dream come true.

ABA Diamond Victorian-cut diamond earrings mounted in platinum and Victorian-cut diamond pendant. Visit www.victoriandiamond.com.

Empire-waisted, pleated-back gown from the Galina collection. Available at David’s Bridal locations nationwide. Call 888-480-BRIDE or visit www.davidsbridal.com.

Martin Flyer platinum ashlar-cut diamond ring. Visit www.martinflyer.com.

CHARMED, I’M SHORE

Flirty, floaty and fabulous, this wedding basks in the beauty of the beach with delicate details and diamonds for a look that’s fresh and feminine.

Diamond watch with pink band from Cyma, featuring full-cut diamonds set in stainless steel or 18-karat white gold. Call 800-359-5163.

Carolina Herrera ivory sleeveless silk sweater with grosgrain ribbon tie and ivory pleated silk-chiffon skirt with metallic detail. Visit www.carolinaherrera.com.

Coast Diamond 18-karat white-gold heart pendant with diamonds and 18-karat white-gold aquamarine ring from the Gem Colour Collection. Call 800-523-5937 or visit www.coastdiamond.com.

Oro Diamante 1-karat emeraldcut and 1-karat round-cut diamond and platinum engagement rings. Visit www.orodiamante.com.

PARADISE FOUND

If the setting doesn’t take your breath away, the services will.

Choose a reception destination that perfectly marries location and luxury; The Ritz-Carlton Palm Beach. This Mobil Five-Star, AAA Five Diamond oceanfront resort creates customized weddings to meet unique couples’ desires. Experienced wedding planners give personalized attention to every detail, and their ideas and themes create an occasion that’s one of a kind.

Casual poolside rehearsal dinners, oceanfront farewell brunches, Grand Ballroom weddings and receptions and the only oceanfront courtyard in Palm Beach for a ceremony at dusk–The Ritz-Carlton Palm Beach is an intimate resort that will become your family’s own estate for your destination wedding. Call 561-533-6000 or visit www.ritzcarlton.com/resorts/palm_beach.

Cyma watch with full-cut diamonds set in 18-karat white gold with a blue leather strap.

Infinity bracelet by Steven Kretchmer. Call 888-746-4753.

Ceramic vase and brown photo album from the Target Modern Luxe Collection. Visit www.Target.com or a Target store near you.

Gifts for the traveler

Here are some ideas for making trips more pleasant, along with some suggestions on where to send your favorite globetrotters.

Maya My, What A Wonderful Day (And Night)

Give a gift of relaxation at the intimate Hacienda Xcanatun (ssh-kana-toon), the recreated “Tall Stone House” of an 18th century farm near Merida, Yucatan, Mexico. The 18-suite luxury hotel on 9 garden-filled acres has a highly rated dining room, two swimming pools and a spa, where Mayan treatments include massages using honey and flowers or sacred rocks.

From this secluded spot, it’s a day trip to the famed Mayan architecture of Chichen Itza and the Flamingo Sanctuary at Celestun, on the Gulf of Mexico.

Wrap up a four- or five-night All Things Maya package or A Flamingo Eco-Adventure package; they range from about $1,500 to $1,900 a couple (five-night packages receive a sixth night free).

Going, going!

High bid wins a stay at Amberley Castle in West Sussex, England, a Viking River Cruise through the Burgundy region of France or four nights at the St. Andrews Bay Golf Resort & Spa in Scotland in the online auction hosted by the Society of American Travel Writers. These and many other trips and gift items are up for bid through Dec. 12 (www.satwauction.com).

Picture ID

Colorful graphics in 31 designs – sunflower, cats, dogs, yoga, golf – on oversized (3.5-by-4 inch) BagTags help distinguish luggage ($7.50 each, JetSetGo, Write Impressions).

Have putter will travel

The three-section wooden handle of the metal-headed travel putter (right), plus practice hole and two golf balls, fit neatly into a zippered vinyl case ($36.85, Magellan’s).

Bright idea

Compact and lightweight, the torch clock combines a clock and flashlight ($14, FlaxArt).

Some like It hot

Warm them up with Coffee & Tea for Two, an insulated thermos tote outfitted with insulated, brushed stainless cups, a 24-ounce vacuum flask and accessories ($45, FlaxArt).

Tune time

AM/FM travel clock radio with CD player (ICF-CD2000) comes with headphones, built-in speakers and AC adapter ($189.95, Sony).

Motion pictures

The 8.9-inch-wide screen of Toshiba’s portable DVD player SD-P2500 boasts high resolution, two headphone jacks and many audio/video features at less than 2 pounds without battery ($699 Best Buy, Neiman Marcus).

Roadside dining

Equip foodies with a travel picnic kit (right), packing a cutting board, cheese knife, wine glasses, corkscrew and more in a slim carrying case with handles ($34.85, Magellan’s).

Save trees

The New York Times Touch Screen Crossword Puzzle Game carries 1,000 crosswords at different skill levels and includes a stylus and adjustable contrast for varying lighting conditions ($69.95, Marshall Field’s).